Managing conflict is a topic that organizations tend to
avoid for the same reason that people avoid it — because it’s hard, it makes
us uncomfortable, and it’s just easier to avoid conflict, right?
The practice of avoiding conflict is based on the
misconception that all conflict is bad. In reality, conflict often pushes
organizations and teams to be more innovative and take relationships to a new
level of openness, honesty and understanding.
Though conflict is a normal and natural
part of any workplace, avoiding conflict or pretending everything is
great all the time can lead to higher absenteeism, lost productivity and eroded
company culture. All these issues add up pretty quickly and can quickly destroy
your company brand, halt your recruitment efforts and have a major financial
So yes, conflict is there whether you
deal with it or not. Plus, it has power, but the only way to harness the power
of conflict so that it can contribute to the success of your organization or
your team, is to learn how to manage it effectively.
The real cost
So, what does unmanaged workplace conflict cost in real dollars? It’s higher that you probably think. According to a study by CPP Global, U.S workers spend more than 2.5 hours per week on conflicts. That adds up to an estimated $359 billion in productivity lost due to workplace conflict (based on an average wage of $17.95 per hour). This staggering amount does not take into account the very real costs of employee turnover, retraining costs, lower productivity, absenteeism and more.
How Conflict Effects Teams
We’ve all been on teams where unchecked conflict has led to serious issues. It’s bigger than low morale. In a team environment where conflict is avoided or ignored, team members adapt by developing unhealthy behaviors like passive aggression, hoarding information and defensive reactions, gossip and general negativity. It destroys true collaboration and trust, makes transparency and vulnerability nearly impossible, tolerates bullying and creates communication blocks. In effect, it’s a team killer. I’ve seen in it in action when I’m called in to restore the team trust. The root of the problem is often communication issues and a lack of skill around conflict resolution strategies or more importantly, no knowledge of how to have productive conflict.
Can we still be friends? What Productive Conflict Looks Like
Rather than resolving conflict after the fact, why not create a new set of rules that allow teams to navigate inevitable conflict in a more effective way? It’s not that radical an idea. Here’s what it looks like:
- An understanding and awareness of the
different styles and personalities on your team
open exchange of different ideas and opinions
to productively and respectfully engage in conflict in the moment — not after
parties feel equally heard, respected an unafraid to voice dissenting opinions
is to reach a mutually agreeable solution
Learning to have productive conflict at work takes real commitment, but it is worth the effort.
We’ve got you covered, join me for highly informative and interactive workshop!
All attendees will receive our white paper on the topic. If your team — or your entire organization, for that matter — need some support to tackle this issue, this white paper will help to get the right conversation started!